Yesterday was Tammy’s 11th birthday. We’ve had her for 10 years now and I swear she gets cuter every day.
G has been at home on sabbatical for a year and he sends me pictures throughout the day of Tammy doing cute things. I think I’ll miss that when he returns to work next month! I might have to get a Pet Cube….
So, in honour of my best studio companion ever, here are some cuter than cute photos of Tammy. Sorry if you’re not a cat fan, but hopefully you can appreciate the squishy face.
As it is migraine awareness week in the USA, I have been inspired to share a little about my condition. Usually it’s craft and positivity around here, so I hope you wont mind if I share a serious subject today. There will also be a little humour I promise.
I believe that in the UK, migraine is the least funded of all neurological conditions, yet 10% of the population suffer. This is more than diabetes, asthma and epilepsy sufferers combined. There are a number of resources I regularly use for information and management of my condition, so I will share these at the end of this post.
Fellow migraine sufferer Gemma wrote this post which has inspired me to share my experience with migraine, so here are 30 questions to spread some awareness.
1) My diagnosis: Migraine without aura
2) Migraine attack frequency: around 2-3 a week.
3) I was diagnosed: around my teenage years, but I didn’t get specialist help until I was 28.
4) My comorbid conditions include: fatigue, IBS, anxiety.
5) I take: Triptans, daily preventative drugs, Naproxen and nausea meds (walking pharmacy!)
6) My first migraine attack: was many years ago as a young teen but I don’t remember it specifically.
7) My most disabling symptoms are: searing head pain, asphasia (loss of speech) and dizziness.
8) Strangest migraine symptoms: speech issues – it is crazy and embarassing if it happens when you are meeting people for the first time or if you’re at the checkout in the supermarket. I’ve also had hemi-plegic attacks which appear via stroke like symptoms – SUPER scary.
9) Biggest migraine triggers are: stress, neck pain, dehydration, lack of routine (holidays and travelling are the worst!).
10) I know a migraine is coming on when: I feel sick, yawn lots and my neck hurts.
11) The most frustrating part about having a migraine attack is: it halts your daily activities so much.
12) During a migraine attack, I worry most about: my to do list getting longer whilst I rest.
13) When I think about migraine between attacks, I think: It sucks so much but I have so much to be positive about.
14) When I tell someone I have migraine, the response is usually: sympathetic followed by ‘have you tried xyz’.
15) When someone tells me they have migraine, I think: you poor person I hope they find us a cure soon!
16) When I see commercials about migraine treatments, I think: anything is worth a try.
17) My best coping tools are: my migra-cap, hugs from G and fish finger sandwiches.
18) I find comfort in: cat cuddles (she lays on my head) and crochet – it’s a great distraction.
19) I get angry when people say: ‘you should do this, my friend did it and it worked’ – everyone is different.
20) I like it when people say: ‘how are you/been thinking of you’.
21) Something kind someone can do for me during a migraine attack is: leave flowers on my doorstep (a friend has done this for me and it was amazing), bring me a coca-cola and some fish fingers, give me a hug.
22) The best thing(s) a doctor has ever said to me about migraine is: ‘there is a menu of medicine to try, let’s work our way through them and you can review’ ha!
23) The hardest thing to accept about having migraine is: there is no cure and may not be one in my lifetime (although I still hope).
24) Migraine has taught me: to be productive and make the most of my well days.
25) The quotation, motto, mantra, or scripture that gets me through an attack is: It will pass, just hang in there. And if it doesn’t, G will take you to the emergency doctor and take photos of you looking like shit on the mini chairs in the waiting room.
26) If I could go back to the early days of my diagnosis, I would tell myself: migraine will be in your life forever, but you will not let it defeat you – stay happy.
27) The people who support me most are: G, my Mum (she suffers too), My Dad, My sister and my friends. Also, my migraine twitter buddies and fellow spoonies – you know who you are.
28) The thing I most wish people understood about migraine is: it is debilitating and so much more than just a headache.
29) Migraine and Headache Awareness Month is important to me because: it brings suffers together.
30) One more thing I’d like to say about life with migraine is: although it is a big part of my life, it doesn’t define me. If you know someone with migraine, talk to them about it.
I hope that was interesting for some of you! If you have read to the end, I’ve done my job of raising awareness of migraine. Here are the resources I use regularly.
It’s time for me to answer your questions for my Ask Me Anything series! Thanks to those of you who took time to leave a question and for being kind 🙂 Here we go…..
Gill asked “what’s your favourite thing to make? Also, how do you pose for photos and look so natural?!”
That’s a tough question! I do love to crochet and making garments is always really satisfying. However, I love making the personalised Scrabble Inspired Wall Art pieces for my customers as each one has a story or meaning attached. I recently made one for a groom to give to his bride and it touched me how romantic he was!
Oh and I definitely don’t look natural all the time. Here’s a dodgy outtake from my photoshoot!
Jo asked “Is Cambridge a good place to be a crochet fanatic? For example, is there a network of crafters, lots of good supplies, places to sell crocheted items? I’m moving back to Cambridge myself next year and would love to hear your view.”
Hi Jo! How exciting you are moving back to Cambridge!! If you are a crochet fanatic I would recommend visiting our local yarn stores Sew Creative and The Sheep Shop. Our John Lewis department store also has a good supply of yarn. Ravelry is a great place to find craft groups and there are a few dotted around the city, often held in cafes or pubs. Most people who sell crocheted items actually sell online, but I would recommend talking to the LYS for more advice on this!
Jill said “I’d love to know more about your journey towards becoming a small business owner. How did you start? What has been your biggest challenge? How do you have the confidence to put yourself out there?! Any advice for someone wanting to start their own etsy store?”
My business has grown quite organically and having worked a day job alongside, I have had the financial security to take some risks which has helped. I began writing this blog in 2012 and shortly after I opened my store and then began freelance writing and hosting craft parties. I love learning so just read blogs, books, articles and took classes along the way. One of the biggest challenges has been finding a balance between work life and home/social life. I find it really tough to have a day off now! My confidence has grown over the years and largely because people have interacted with my blog or purchased a product I’ve made. Everything takes time.
If you’re interested in starting an Etsy store I would recommend doing your research first and spending time on photography as it is so important for getting your items noticed. A good place to start is with the Etsy seller handbook. If you use this link to open your store, you will get 40 free listings.
Lucinda asked “what was your favourite product you’ve developed and sold and why? Where is your favourite Cambridge place and the most important question must be why is Tammy so cute?”
I think it has to be the bicycle bracelets. I feel like they represent Cambridge for me and to see them sell so massively during the Tour De France last year, was so great!
My favourite place in Cambridge is the river! I am lucky enough to live close to the riverside and I always feel like it is a space to breathe. Plus, I love punting in the summer as the vibe on the river is so fun. Don’t tell anyone, but it took me 6 years to learn how to punt.
Glad you enjoy Tammy pics on the blog. I have to say, this one that Lucy took on our photoshoot is my favourite!
Alice asked “If crafting was illegal what lengths would you go to that would ensure you could continue?” and “What was the last really vivid dream you had?”.
Wow that first question is tough!! I think I would just craft in my own home behind closed doors! I guess it if was illegal it would be difficult to find supplies, so I reckon I would make my own supplies such as cutting up old clothes for fabric and unravelling old jumpers to get yarn. I would probably have secret craft parties in my house too. Don’t tell!
Hmm the last vivid dream I had…..I can’t even remember! Oh yes! I recently took up roller skating and I dreamt I was AMAZING at it. When I woke up I was super disappointed as I realised it wasn’t true and I’d have to keep practising.
Pippa asked “I want to learn how to make my own cards as you have inspired me – how would you recommend I start?”
So glad to have inspired you! Definitely experiment and find other card makers that inspire you (I recommend the Sizzix blog and not just because I write for them!). A lot of the cards I make have a simplistic style, so play around with supplies and ideas until you find your style and most importantly, just have fun with it! Mixed media cards are often fun too, so maybe try to combine different materials such as images, fabric, paper etc? Please do share anything you create with me, I’d love to see!
Well that was fun! Thanks so much to everyone who asked a question and let’s just hope that crafting never becomes illegal…….I can’t even imagine it!
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